Friday, 30 September 2011

LOVE


Thank you for all your kind words regarding the loss of
... my wonderful Mum.

It is more than 4 weeks since she passed on...



 
My Mum was a beautiful elegant lady, she was always beautifully dressed her hair and make-up immaculate.  But she was even more beautiful on the inside and this she radiated to all who met her, in her own quiet unassuming way.

My Mum was Simply Beautiful.

Devastatingly, my Mum was diagnosed with Younger Onset Dementure...Alzheimer's Disease in 2007
However, the illness started long before in 2000 and it took 2 years before a diagnosis was given.
My Mum accepted this cruel blow that nature had dealt her, with humility and dignity, even though it was her worst fear,
 having lost her own mother to this cruel disease.

My Dad as well as being a wonderful husband,
 had been my Mum's full-time carer.
He cared for my Mum with such courage, love and devotion.
They took on the battle together, but knew it was a battle they could never win. 

A neighbour wrote
" As a couple you were admired by us all and you were both held with great respect."

Both my Dad and my Mum, through her illness have been a lesson and an inspiration.

As the wickedness and evil of this cruel disease chipped away at the beautiful person we all knew and loved, the one thing it was not able to touch or take hold of was the
POWER of LOVE.

We all take great comfort in this.

Right to the end my Mum never lost her capacity to tell us, all the time, that she loved us,  and to know that she was Really, and I mean Really Loved...



  

21 comments:

  1. Sending loads of Celtic Love to you, Julie. Always happy to read your beautiful posts. xxx

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  2. Such a sweet and real post my heart goes out to you in your time of healing and grieving.xx

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  3. To my dear friend Julie,
    So sorry I missed your earlier post about your darling Mum.
    What an amazing woman she must have been.
    Love that verse, it's one of my favs. I will be thinking of you and your family so much. I know you will be sustained and uplifted during this sad time.
    Much LOVE Jo

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  4. Beautifully said sweetheart. I feel so sad for you. Sending lots of love, Amanda xxxx

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  5. Dear Julie, I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. You are in my thoughts, love to you & your family..x

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  6. Oh Julie, such a beautiful tribute to your mother. Your mother....and your father, seem like two very wonderful people.

    All my love to you and your family.....

    Vanessa xxx

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  7. Oh Julie, this post made me tears in my eyes!
    I am so so so sorry for you, and I really know what you feel. I´ve lost my parents a long time ago and I´m shure, one day we will see them again! Keep your head up, true love never dies!
    sending you a big hug from germany, geisslein

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  8. awwwww *biggest huggies* i can see the love in your words for your mother- what a wonderful person she was and after all she created you ;0) x best wishes x

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  9. A big big hug from us all in this house! Keep your lovely memories next to your hart.

    Kram Cia

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  10. Sorry to hear about your loss. But, in a same time, you speak so lively about your mother that she will never, ever die...

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  11. Dear Julie,

    Your mother sounds like a wonderful person. It's good you have such beautiful memories of her!

    A big hug,

    Madelief xox

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  12. Beautiful heartfelt post. What a wonderful mother she was indeed. Love transends all!
    Maureen

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  13. This has given me goosebumps, You just won't believe it, email me ASAP xxx

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  14. Oh Julie,
    I´m so sorry to hear of your mum passing away. What a wonderful post, your mum was lovely.
    Lots of love dear Julie.

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  15. Julie, I am so very sorry for this huge loss.

    Stay strong and kiss your family often!

    xoxo kelley

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  16. Such a tribute to your mum, truly beautiful!!
    ... sitting here tearing up :)

    Sending over lots of love. Take care of yourself and the rest of your family in this time of grief. XX

    Kram från Australien♥

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  17. What a lovely heartfelt tribute to your Mum. hugs to you and your family.xx

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  18. Beautiful words and very true xx

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  19. Hello dear Julie.

    What a beautiful post about truly beautiful and inspiring people. Life can deal some really cruel blows and we don't always know why. I will keep you in my thoughts and I hope that faith and hope and especially your love for each other will get you through this very difficult time.

    Hugs to you, Stephie x

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